On the level of psychology, traumatic memory is of being individual, self-experience and emotional, among which the most important is self-experience. The subject of traumatic memory has a pre-privilege of emotion and ethics. We can discuss the traumatic memory from the perspective of its origin in the reality and cultural representation. Trauma could only become collective crisis, the issue of philosophy, ethics and culture from the level of individual experience, literature and physical past if it is explored collectively. Nowadays, media is absolutely important since it makes personal memory change into the public discourse, and on the other hand it involves traumatic memory into our daily life. So that we should keep sympathy and respect for sufferings, keep an eye on the writing of memory, as well as differentiate objective truth and subjective truth, correct memory and wrong memory.